Ouch that hurt!!!

Well this week had been pretty nice.After a long time there had been some good news(more abt it later) ..but as usual everything needs to come to an end...shudn't they?? a couple of incidents that happened today with 2 different people did really hurt.I usually trust someone till am proved wrong and the two people who were involved,I had huge amount of good will on them..but there was one commonality abt the whole....both sounded very casual when they said it.I am sure i would think twice before I get into that kind of a deal but i thought i got pretty muich of an unfair treatment....am I being taken for granted??should i have said something back?? probably some 4 years before I would have done that..but not now.world is pretty big for such small things i think.But does that mean I should take this nonsense...Am confused!!